At Beings Club we define curiosity as an orientation to experience that is open to discovery.Together, we explore two principles in curiosity.
realisationhouse[rɪəlaɪˈzeɪʃᵊnhaʊs]n.A social gathering place where contemplative practice is recognised and engaged as a means of realising new possibilities.When we stay oriented to experience and open to discovery, what is important reveals itself and curiosity itself can deepen.
As curiosity deepens and more is revealed, we're more available to ourselves, each other, fresh ideas and new futures.
Beings Club exists because of a tea house at Plum Village, where I found myself in conversations over tea that expanded my sense of what is possible.
Beings Club is in the lineage of that atmosphere: a lineage of feeling, not a body of doctrine.
— John
Creativity is only ever limited by our sense of what's possible — and that sense is not fixed.
As connections deepen and new ones appear, what we see, how we relate, and our sense of what is possible all change. What is important can be realised inwardly; things of value can be realised in reality.
We hope more realisationhouses will arise.
“A space to slow down, reflect together, and make sense of things out loud.”
“Genuine encounters with people whose timelines wouldn't typically intersect with mine.”
“I leave every time feeling more human, more like a being.”
Joining starts with a conversation.
Every month we gather to take time for ourselves and to meet one another. Every Salon begins with meditation.
Following, members meet one-to-one and in groups of three. There are no prompts, no themes, and nothing to do except stay curious.
Nothing to prepare, nothing to have figured out.
The form stays reliable so what happens inside it can be free.
About twenty minutes of meditation to open — individual practice, held in a shared field.
Randomly allocated, one-to-one and in threes. Three invitations are offered — to be addressed as you prefer, to begin without words, and to stay curious.
Everyone comes back into one room to land, share a little if you'd like to, and close the space together.
Curiosity connects.
“Genuine encounters with people whose timelines wouldn't typically intersect with mine.”
“A space to slow down, reflect together, and make sense of things out loud.”
“I have had several experiences of being seen, heard, and held.”
The next Salon is Wednesday, September 30th, 7pm UK.
A Sit runs as a shared experiment over a set stretch of days — we each sit in our own lives, knowing that others are sitting the same days, and meet live once a week.
John hosts and teaches. The practices are rooted in contemplative traditions and he won't pretend otherwise — but this is a lineage of feeling, not a body of doctrine. Nothing asked of you as belief.
Sceptics welcome, but stay curious.
Meditation is curiosity and care turned towards our experience.
A 35-day experiment in trusting yourself. Each week takes up one principle as a lens to bring into practice, not an idea to believe — and you're paired with a different lab partner to share the exploration with each week.
Curiosity. Care. Responsibility. Play. Rest.
“John has this rare capacity to make you feel at ease, accepted, and guided.”
“John's words are clear, lucid, and deeply supportive.”
“John's spiritual friendship changed how I experience life itself.”
Beyond Belief.
Thirty-five days. One practice.
Thirty-five days of sitting, six Tuesday meetings, and a group of other people doing it with you. No experience needed, and nothing you have to believe.
Hosted by John.
Freely offered, online, 15 September – 20 October.
Trusting yourself isn't confidence that things will always go perfectly, and it isn't certainty about who you are. It's closer to a friendship — with yourself and life.
Meditation (sitting) is a way of turning towards our experience and befriending it. Over time, a sitting practice can shift the atmosphere of your experience into the qualities of friendship: gentleness, precision, and humour.
Beyond Belief is a guided exploration into befriending your direct experience. You're invited to come along and see what you discover.
Over 35 days there is time to grow in confidence with the practice of sitting and find your own ways of making it yours.
These aren't five topics. They're how a friendship gets built — one quality at a time, each week making the next one possible.
A map for practice. Yours from day one.
A way to remember the days, and a record of staying the course.
Someone new to meet, practice with, and discuss your findings with each week.
Available via voice-message and text for the whole thirty-five days for questions, doubts, and guidance.
“John has this rare capacity to make you feel at ease, accepted, and guided.”
“John's words are clear, lucid, and deeply supportive.”
“John's spiritual friendship changed how I experience life itself.”
Thirty-five days. One practice.
You send a few lines about yourself.
John replies, usually within a few days, and suggests a conversation.
If it's a mutual yes, John sends you invitations when what you're interested in is happening.